Ask yourself, who do YOU want to be? Not what, but WHO? Not what society, your parents, your teachers want you to be, but what makes YOU happy? Is your identity, your life’s purpose, SIMPLY to be an office worker, SIMPLY to be a teacher, SIMPLY to be a student, SIMPLY to be the tech guy, the math geek?
If you’re like a lot of guys, you can’t quite put your finger on it but something is missing. Something is keeping you from living the life of your dreams with the wealth, women, and POWER you desire. Some excitement and ZEST to your everyday mundane life.
You start your day off with a testosterone-sapping breakfast of low-fat WOMEN’S AND CHILDREN’S cereal/pop-tarts/donuts.
You sit on your ass all day, indoors and out of the sun, to slave away at something you don’t enjoy because you have bills to pay.
You come home to jerk off to other people having sex on a screen.
You worry what other people think of you or say about you. Especially on social networking sites such as Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. Back in your great-grandfather’s day, “twitter” was something birds did outside.
And if he were alive today, he would be ASHAMED he busted his ass for you to live and exist to post about such trivialities.
You wonder if you PUNCHED ANOTHER MAN in the face if he’d just stand there and LAUGH at you.
All of this does NOT promote testosterone production. These are NOT acceptable male behaviors. But despite what certain charlatans will have you believe, there are no solutions, only TRADE-OFFS you and you alone must discipline yourself to make. Here are eight to get you started.
8) Pick-Up Artist NONSENSE
Perhaps the greatest scam in the history of the internet, PUA nerds attempt to market to your insecurities by offering a magic-bullet solution to all of your problems. The reality is if you suck with girls, you have much bigger problems than any canned NLP(neuro-linguistic programming) routine to “entrance” a woman can solve for you. And forget about DHV (displaying high value) or “fake it till you make it” crap. Face it, you’re not a great actor and girls can smell through your bullshit.
Trying to go “indirect” at a bar or a club simply means selling your balls down the river by acting like a faggot-ass circus-monkey. Just so you can slip in under the radar and get a phone number which leads to nothing at the cost of a good night’s sleep. You are still putting women on a pedestal like the AFC (average frustrated chump) who gets friend zoned. You are simply doing this in a different way in spending your valuable time on memorizing canned scripts and running “phone game.”
Most of these PUA nerds don’t even get laid, they are simply marketers who go out to collect phone numbers, often fake, from average-looking girls to stroke their egos. Much like how they play Dungeons and Dragons and other children’s games (see #7 below). How many of these guys have PROOF of them getting girls who A) aren’t already in their social circle and B) aren’t under the influence of alcohol and drugs?
Look, even if what these charlatans taught was the “ideal” style for getting girls and assuming it actually does work for THEM, it still doesn’t mean it will work for YOU. Because can you really expect to remember to do and say exactly what they tell you to?
“Game,” specifically your “style” or “personality,” is one of those things in life you’re really going to have to develop based on your own personal experience via trial and error. It really can’t be learned from reading an ebook or watching a video.
Picking up girls is simply a numbers game vs. your looks vs. your “game.” Your “game” will get better as you accumulate more experience approaching women and you will start to develop your own “style.” This will be based on 1) YOUR personality, 2) YOUR upbringing, and 3) what the types of girls YOU like to approach tend to respond more favorably too.
And the funny thing is, most of the PUAs have lifestyles which are pathetic from a health perspective. Sleep deprivation and drug/alcohol abuse leads to low sperm and testosterone counts which equals low libido/sex drive. This means most PUAs really do treat picking up girls like a video game.
PUA nerds simply want to avoid rejection and would gladly take a phone number, not because they really even want it to lead to sex, but because they think it makes them look cool in front of their friends or “clients.”
If you spent half as much time BEING A REAL MAN and engaging in real, masculine activities such as combat sports or lifting weights, as you have reading, buying, and torrenting PUA ebooks, videos, or god-forbid shelling out a couple grand to attend “boot-camp seminars,” you wouldn’t have any problems pulling a hot bitch out of a club or getting a coffee date from a cutie in the mall.
However, I’m not a theorist who’s never been where you were or felt how you feel. You’ve always sucked at basic contact sports and the idea of lifting heavy weights at the gym sounds mundane and/or intimidating to you.
I know since you’re at such a pathetic state physically and mentally, you’re reluctant to just start putting yourself out there to try something completely new and unfamiliar. What you need is a masculine hobby/sport/fitness routine you can do in the privacy of your own home and on your own schedule.
The best program for this is offered by The Self Defense Co. It’s founder, Damian Ross (a former bouncer and lifelong martial artist with three black belts), developed a system of personal protection approachable to literally anybody, regardless of previous in-experience. This system is known as the Self Defense Training System (SDTS).
Or as I like to call it, the Combatives Training System (CTS) since his programs go beyond basic self defense. They also provide both an introduction to techniques from combat sports (such as Judo and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu) as well as an education into all the methods of man-on-man close quarters killing which have been used throughout human history. Rather than go on and on about why it’s so awesome, click here to see what TRAINING in SDC Combatives is all about.
You certainly don’t have to train in the program I just recommended. Just find something COOL to do which you can enjoy whether you have girls in your life or not. It’s good for your “inner game” and good for your soul.
But back to one of the main takeaways: Girls ALREADY have a pussy, they don’t need another one. You’re EITHER COCKY or you’re PUSSY. Moderation is for the mediocre. Why try to PRETEND and convince a girl you are an “alpha male” when you can actually take the steps to BE one.
7) VIDEO GAMES
Men have an inherent desire to experience some form of action in the form of violent physical activity. Unfortunately, this desire has become converted into a desire to play multi-player shooters and fantasizing about being a super hero.
Well, this is great if you’re seven years old, but for most adults, video-games are a waste of time. You need to get an EXCITING, REAL life and not a FAKE, VIRTUAL one. Save your time, your money, and SELL all the BULLSHIT on craigslist like I did. Use the money to invest in something REAL like training in SDC Combatives.
STOP WHAT YOU’RE DOING AND LIST YOUR XBOX, PLAYSTATION, AND WHATEVER OTHER BULLSHIT ON CRAIGSLIST, TODAY. I KNOW INVESTING IN TRAINING CAN BE EXPENSIVE AND MONEY CAN BE TIGHT, BUT LOSERS MAKE EXCUSES, WINNERS FIND SOLUTIONS. Make this necessary trade-off because even though it’s cliche, where there’s a will there’s a way. REAL MEN don’t let circumstances dictate them, they grow a set of balls and DICK-tate circumstances.
6) THE IDIOT BOX
The TV is what I like to call the idiot box. It’s for idiots. Simply put, mainstream television/movies/music for the most part condition you subconsciously with the same message: “You need to act more like a PUSSY in order to be accepted by society.” Just like with diet, be careful what media your brain consumes.
Gone are the days of “Rocky” in this day and age of Justin Bieber. And in are the metrosexual, scrawny or fat-ass males you see on TV. Whenever you watch nonsense of the likes of “Homer Simpson” and “Peter Griffin,” you laugh but the subconscious message is: Men are lazy, out-of shape slobs who need to shut the fuck up and listen to the women in their lives for guidance.
5) WOMEN’S AND CHILDREN’S FOOD
You are what you eat(LIKE). If you eat pussy, you feel great. If you eat LIKE a pussy, you look like one and FEEL LIKE ONE. The lunch time slump/energy dip guys feel is caused by the high-sugar, low-fat nonsense you guys put into your bodies. Refined sugar is not energy, it’s for hyperactive women and children with an attention deficit disorder. People ask me all the time how I stay on my “diet” and ask me all this nonsense about eating low-fat, high-fat, carb cycling, carb loading, carb depleting, and other liberal bullshit.
This style of dieting MAY be useful if you want to diet down to a legit sub-6% body fat. But it’s certainly not necessary if you just want to be a healthy and fit 10-12% body-fat. Any leaner and it won’t make any difference in terms of your athleticism or your attractiveness to women.
Remember, testosterone is related to your psychology just as much as it is to your physiology. Just as you shouldn’t brainlessly put obvious junk into your body, obsessively and compulsively worrying about every bite of food can’t possibly do any good for your testosterone.
Obsessive compulsive diets are for girls. Real men don’t count grams of carbs. They don’t worry about starch or cholesterol. I do eat plenty of RED MEAT. I don’t bother carrying around 5-6 tupper-wares of low-fat egg whites, tuna, brown rice, and chicken breasts just so I can eat 5-6 small meals a day. And I don’t eat tofu, I’m a MEAT and POTATOES kind of guy.
I DON’T EAT MUCH WOMENS’ and CHILDREN’S food because I am a MAN and I eat like one. I eat the foods that I WANT to and ENJOY eating(JUICY, RARE STEAK, WHOLE EGGS, SWEET-POTATOES, etc.) and generally avoid the foods UNFIT for MAN to be eating.
Masturbation evolved so BETA-males could release their seed somehow since all the ALPHAS had a MONOPOLY on the pussy and would fuck you up if you tried to touch one of our girls. Jerking off to porn only cements your lower status in our tribe or society. Trying to build a better body, get better with women, all while making more money is difficult enough, save the time and pass on the porn.
Too many guys have told me they are too worried about the consequences of not ejaculating frequently enough whether it be long-term health of the prostate or premature ejaculation. First, they assume they simply won’t be getting laid anytime soon which is in and of itself a self-defeating belief. Second, they forget how the body has already evolved the mechanism of nocturnal emission aka “wet dreams” to alleviate these problems. Long story short, go to bed early.
Women have never been oppressed and were never slaves to their husbands. Since when did a slave-master ever get on one knee and propose with a rock equivalent to 3 months’ worth of food to ask “Will you be my slave?” Men have always protected women and children, hence giving them the lifeboats in the Titanic.
Can you imagine a slave master letting all the slaves get on the life boats when the ship sinks? Women were also never underpaid, as Milton Friedman and Thomas Sowell have pointed out, women had traditionally taken time off work when pregnant to take care of kids and worked part-time jobs. And the last time I checked, part-time workers make less than full time workers.
Given the same amount of real-world work experience and education, women actually make MORE than men. Feminists are simply a bunch of ugly, out-of-shape women who desperately wanted what men had. Their desire to make women more masculine and “independent” while making men more feminine can be seen in…
2) LEFTIST INDOCTRINATION SCHOOLING
Little boys are indoctrinated into believing men have committed all of the evils and atrocities the world has ever seen and how man’s violent nature needs to be tempered. This can be seen in the widespread…
1) ANTI-VIOLENCE/ANTI-BULLYING INDOCTRINATION
The liberal feminists have indoctrinated our boys how all violence is bad and is not the solution. Well there are no solutions, only trade-offs. Violence may not solve anything, but historically it sure has, does, and will stop a lot of SH*T. What happens when Generation V(Victims of violence) has to go out in the real world and there isn’t a school administrator there to protect them from F*CKING “CYBER BULLYING?”
I’ll tell you what happens, they get F*CKED by criminal sociopaths. And they than vote to give up their freedoms and liberties so BIG BROTHER GOVERNMENT can “protect” them through the implementation of a SOCIALIST NANNY POLICE STATE.
If criminals, by definition, don’t follow laws, than HOW THE F*CK ARE MORE GUN CONTROL LAWS AND RESTRICTIONS going to stop anyone but LAW-ABIDING CITIZENS from accessing the TOOL of violence. I digress, but back in the day, getting your ass kicked meant it was time for CHANGE. It was time to learn how to be able to KNOCK SOMEONE THE F*CK OUT! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44C2ladsCZg&list=UUvVCP9kwCgmlu356ayBoe7Q&index=2)
To paraphrase a quote from an interview with Curtis Jackson aka rapper 50 Cent, “The kid in the school yard who never wanted to fight always had a black eye and the kid who was down to throw down if need be would be doing just fine” Pain is the most powerful motivator known to man. If you get bullied, it means something needs to change.
50 Cent’s rise to stardom truly epitomizes how far in life you can go if you’re fearless, take good care of your body, and have the KILLER PHYSIQUE. Unlike most modern celebrities and musicians who abuse substances left and right, 50 Cent doesn’t smoke weed, doesn’t even drink, and is committed to living the right lifestyle of health and fitness. Working out, eating the “right” foods, and avoiding the women’s and children’s cupcakes nonsense.
Regardless of what you think of his music, you have to respect him as a business man who made $100 million after taxes when Coca-Cola bought out Glaceau, a company he took a risk in investing in. From the boardroom to the bedroom, the FEARLESS HEART of a real man will serve you well on your journey in life.
To get the FEARLESS, “hustler’s” edge… CLOSE THE BROWSER OF PORN, PUT DOWN THE CHIPS, AND LET’S GET TO WORK, YOU’VE GOT A LOT OF TRAINING TO DO…
And as always,
Hit the Weights. Hit with Hate. Seize the Day.